A Journey that makes You Happy.

This phase is different for everyone. Being Happy is the only way out for us to live the moment and to go with the flow. As my previous blog post was about “Happiness” which was for a Blogging Challenge.

  • In which I discussed,
  • Go with the Flow
  • Happiness is not always about you.
  • Don’t limit your idea about happiness over life events.
  • State of mind that matters.
  • Happiness is also in achieving small things.

You can read the full article about “Happiness, you come to me… I shall wait”

Well, in this blog post I would like to give my take on “A journey that makes you happy”

I, a Mother, like most of you all out there have our shares of responsibilities and on a journey to fulfill family’s needs we often tend to forget what we want.

I am not saying that this is a bad thing or something that we need to change. No!! Family needs us more. But at the same time, this Motherhood journey is also about doing something that makes you happy too.

Hey Mom, don’t be so busy that you lose yourself in it!Tweet

Motherhood is Tough or I would rather say, Parenthood is tough for that matter. Both the parents have their shares of responsibilities. And most of the mothers would give up her dreams, ambitions, and goals just to be with the baby. I wouldn’t term this as a good thing or a bad thing. It is just acting according to your family situations.

Here I would like to share my own experience on how blogging became my sole goal to achieve. I am a busy momma of a toddler and a preschooler. And they kept me busy for almost 4 and a half years. But one day it all started with a SpeakEasyBloggingChallange that I have taken part in and wrote about Happiness… You come to me, I shall wait.

I just loved the response that I got for it and then I started taking up seriously. It was like a little push up for me. And then to top it off, I got featured in Feedspot website, as Top 100 Mom Lifestyle Blogs and Websites for Moms to follow in 2020. My blog post about Happiness was Ranked 32,

This has a team of 25 expert bloggers to check and discover popular blogs, videos, or podcasts in various niches. There are various reasons that the ranking is based upon. I am so great full and happy that this has happened.

The only purpose for this blog post is to convey a little message to fellow moms with a bit of personal experience is,

  1. It is OK to take time off when you have kids.
  2. It is OK to go to work after you have kids.
  3. It is OK to have goals.
  4. It is OK to dream and be ambitious.
  5. It is OK to be home after kids.
  6. It is OK not to be home after kids.

What so ever it may be, it is just You, Your Family, and Kids that would matter. Give yourself time and for things to settle down. And you could choose something that would make you happy. This is my Journey that makes me Happy.Sadvika Kylash

Hope this little write up gave you that little push if you needed it. Be the important person in your journey that makes you Happy!

See you next time.

Love,

Sadvika Kylash.

Momlifeandlifestyle.

Happiness, you come to me! I shall wait!

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Firstly I would like to thank Ruchi and Dipika for giving me this opportunity to take part in the #SpeakEasyBloggingChallange. Here is my take on the term Happiness. Hope you all like it. If you do, please Like, Share, and Comment down below.

Coming back to the topic,

The idea of happiness is different for everyone. But here are a few points that I would like to stress upon. Guys, continue reading I am sure you will like it.

Starting with this quote:

“You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.”― Albert Camus

Allow the life to flow: 

As we ‘look’ for happiness we would often get disappointed with the small idea of ‘what happiness is for you then.’ We should let life going in a ‘flow state’ by being busy and occupied with the things/activates that matter.

We often stick to one event that has not worked our way and would lose our concentration as well as interest in performing other important tasks. This would make us less motivated and disappointed. It is to remember that our opinion about ‘Happiness’ changes from time to time!

Hence, instead of searching for happiness like everywhere, let the life flow!

“Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.”― Robert A. Heinlein, Stranger in a Strange Land

  • Happiness is not always about yourself:

I strongly agree with this quote. Life is not about being selfish or constantly chasing things that you want. But when you pause and think for a while of your family/your partner/children anyone you like, for that matter. You would be willing to do anything for them. (Yes, of course, something which is in your limits)

Let us assume, that you got your dream job away from your hometown (Yes you worked hard and deserve the success) but same time you would be sad for going far from them. And your family would be happy for you have to get what you wanted or worked hard for. This is when you realize that despite your loved one being sad for you going far from them, they are happy for you! “Happiness is not always alone

“Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions.― Dalai Lama XIV

  • Don’t limit your idea of happiness over life events:

When you try to overestimate happiness over whatever is happening in your life, leads to disappointment. Sometimes, you often don’t get what we wanted and start rejecting things that have not worked your way. You would put in fewer efforts to understand or like because it was not something that you wanted. But as they say, everything happens for a reason! Yes maybe! You would eventually start adapting, accepting, and liking things or challenges life throws at you!

“Folks are usually about as happy as they make their minds up to be.”― Abraham Lincoln

  • State of mind that matters:

Nobody’s life is perfect! We all have our shares of ups and downs. And when sometimes things don’t work your way, you would be disappointed. Yes, agreed. But the question is how long are you going to be like that..?!

Life is way beyond that one particular life event that has made you disappointed. This is why a state of mind matters. It is You who would decide whether to be sad and constantly think over what has happened or would you rather let it go and get on with life, doing things that would serve the purpose!

“Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.― Mahatma Gandhi

  • Having memories that bring you joy:

Memories always bring you joy no matter where you are and what are you up to. People who you like will always bring a smile on your face. Memories are something that would pull you out from any situation that you are in. Memories are the ultimate happiness. Having good memories is the ultimate reaction to how you be with people. When you think good, say good, and do good, people would always be there for you!

“The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.”

Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
  • Happiness is also in achieving small little things:

I, you, everyone! Dream big. Yes, the ultimate goal is to dream big and work towards achieving it. But happiness also includes small little things that we often ignore or don’t appreciate as much as it should be. Those things matter a lot.

Achieving big is something that would take time, need consistency and dedication. But same time, we all must be having small things that we have accomplished in day to day life, which needs to be acknowledged. For instance, let’s say for me, having a blog post published at a said time or number of blog posts that I wanted to publish in a week, having to fit into an old outfit (I’m sure most of you all would agree), doing everything on your to-do list, having your day pass on without your child’s tantrums (which is rare, though) and so on…

Sometimes it is better we shift away from our thoughts about happiness and work on things, people, or relationships that would ultimately bring happiness to you!

So, instead of constantly searching for happiness ‘let the life flow’ and always remember the fact that ‘happiness is not always about you’ don’t make the mistake of ‘limiting your ideas about happiness over life events.’ It is always said that you are what you think and it is ultimately ‘state of mind that matters. Having people around you who you love gets you to ‘having joyful memories that would bring happiness.’ And lastly, happiness is not always about having a big house, cars, or properties but ‘happiness is also in achieving small little things.’

This blog post is written for #SpeakEasyChallangeforRuchiNDips  

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